Sunday, July 29, 2007

Friends

Long time din't update my blogs already, because no idea about what to share here, finally having one idea which is talk about friend!!
I think all of us know what is friends and the important of friends, friends not only bring us a lot of happy, smile, they might accompany us when we need it, accompany us to face the problems. However, friends sometimes might also hurt us, they might "use" us to do something and finally the benefit are go to them and we didn't get anything besides hurt!!
I understand that feeling, because i am being hurt by this kind of friend before, that time i am very sad n angry with that friend untill i have read an article about the amount of ppl in the world. How this article relate to the friends, let me explain here. There trillion numbers of ppl in this world, the chances we meet one in the trillion is less than 0.001%, somemore we meet each other and become friend in the end, the chances are less than 0.000000001% or even less than this, so after i read this article, i understand that we can become friend is because of the faith.
Start from that day, i am not angry with that friend anymore but i am appreciate the friendship between us, not because of this faith, but also because i finally understand that, the deeper hurt u get from someone is because that person brings a lot of happy to u before!!
Maybe is because of our self defense system, we always think the hurt side n avoid from being hurt again, but seldom of us will remember the happy moment we spend together n learn how to forgive.
Then,i am stop here, because quite late already. It is time for me to sleep,hope having a nice day tomorrow.

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